Finding the "RIGHT" Person (My View)

It's funny how we're all looking for that special someone;
a decent/trustworthy/great man/woman. That one person
you can always talk to, rely on, that got your back.
But we failed to look for that upon ourselves. We failed to
 look at ourselves and ask these questions; Am I a good
 man/woman? Am I Trustworthy? Do iiiii have these qualities
that I'm looking for in another person? Are we that person
that we are looking for? can we match up the qualities?
would someone find these qualities in me?  I know these
questions might seem a little bit redundant but
 If you can't truthfully/genuinely
 answer YES to these questions, then you aught not to speak
toward these qualities. You aught not to judge the people who
do not have these qualities, neither should you be complaining
about it. First of all, you don't deserve it. I know you probably
feel that "Ey, I use to have these qualities, but people this,
people that?" but if you these people ask you to jump off a
200-story building, would you have done it. If you wouldn't
then why blaming them. Did they hold a gun to your head and
tell you to change? Then if not, I don't see why you take a turn
down in the dark side! Wake up! If you want good thing, do
good things and good things will happen to you. Don't wait to find
that person then try to change for them. No, it doesn't work
 that way. You might lose them before you even change.
It's hard to break habits. Being unfaithful is a habit, being disrespectful,
is a habit, being dishonest is a habit...a lot of these are habits that
a lot of us has. Some of us can control it, some just can't
So don't go around saying all
man/woman this, all man/woman that because Jesus said
"Let he WITHOUT SIN cast the first stone." ~John 8:7...
I promise you most of us if not all, are not worthy to even
touch the first stone. Let me not make an assumption and
just ask the question "ARE YOU WORTHY TO CAST
THE FIRST STONE?" go head, answer that.
If you genuinely can't say "Yes" to this question, do me
a favor and stop judging others. In other word,
practice what you preach. Be what you looking for in others.

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Who Am I? (Poetry)

I, the one who rises above,
fly in the sky with the Angels' dove,
I, the one that give all of my love,
seem to be the one they want to get rid of.

I, the element of maturity,
am courageous in this world of cowardliness.
I, the architecture of all ages,
build myself upon the ground on which I stand.

I, in case you're seeking an answer,
am me,
I, in case you need an enhancer,
am me.

12/04/2012
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Achieving your goals (My View)

I guess this will pretty much be my first blog just talking about a topic.

So, What about achieving your goal?
what I will be talking about is what I feel would be some good pointers and guidelines that you can use to achieve your goals. First and foremost, this is not a scientific proven guideline. Just so that we are clear, this is purely my opinion. If I was to refer to something or a topic that is not directly from me, I will definitely have direct siting for it.
Anyways, back to my topic...
Achieving a goal to me is not just a physical thing. In order to even begin setting goals, first you must be mentally stable. To elaborate on that, I meant to have a CLEAR MIND. You will most likely set unattainable goals if you  are not thinking straight. One good way to clear your mind will be to GO FAR FROM YOUR FAMILIAR SURROUNDING. No I'm not saying if you live in Atlanta to go to California lol. What I am saying is don't do it at home, don't do it places where you are used to. I also wouldn't recommend the library because you might end up killing yourself with boredom. So where can you go then?...Well I would suggest something like a public park, have a solitary lunch with a notepad(you'd be surprise the power of food). If you do decide to  have a solitary lunch, try to go places that's not too crowded with tooooo much distractions. So what I'm saying is that, you don't want to be too distracted, neither too bored that you fall asleep. If you have question about environment that could fit, feel free to hit me up. Also if the goal you are setting involves another person, it wouldn't be a bad idea to drag them along with you ;-). Next step when you get to your destination is BLOCKING UNNECESSARY THOUGHTS/emotions or anything that can lead you astray from thinking straight.
What's next after a clear head?
Well what you should do is VISUALIZE YOURSELF! You want to be able to see yourself reaching that goal, doing whatever it is that you setting up your goals for. If you can't see yourself attaining that goal, I can already tell you that you are wasting your time. As you visualizing yourself reaching that goal, once there...you need to TRACE BACK. What is tracing back??? by tracing back I mean to think backward from the time you reach your goal to where you are now. But why is this even important? This is important because these are the steps(in between) that you will need to take in order to reach that goal you are trying to achieve. As you doing so...DO NOT LIMIT YOURSELF!!! Limiting yourself will cause doubt and lack of confidence. Achieving goals 99% of the time is not by chance. It's by hardworking! You can't work hard if you are doubting yourself, now can you? well let's not doubt ourselves.
Next, CREATE A PLAN! so this step involves, writing down what it will take to achieve this goal (remember what I said, DO NOT LIMIT YOURSELF) because in order to succeed, your will to succeed MUST be greater than your fear to fail. You don't want to be a failure do you?
Ey by the way, DON'T LET PROCRASTINATION CREEP UP on you. You will be surprise how fast procrastination can creep up on you. So, how do you stay away from procrastination...well that's why in the steps involving creating your plan...you must write down PEOPLE YOU WANT TO BE AROUND and also PEOPLE YOU WANT TO BE AROUND YOU. Tell you the truth, some people are dream crusher! So you must stay away from those type of people.
Last but not least, put your PLAN IN MOTION. One major thing in putting your plan in motion is to NETWORK, meeting/conversating/seeking people who have attain that goal or was a mediator in helping someone else achieving that goal you setting up for youself. Your network with be your strongest link in achieving your goal. IT'S NOT HARD! JUST DO IT!!!

THE ONLY LIMIT YOU HAVE IS THE LIMIT  YOU PUT ON YOURSELF....SO DON'T LIMIT YOURSELF!

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